polytrichum system's boundaries
- discord dms: feel free, as long as we've talked before or it's for staff purposes; otherwise, ask first
- tumblr dms: feel free
- discord friend requests: ask first
- discord pings/tumblr mentions: feel free
- affection: if youre wondering, then dont
- flirting: absolutely not
- venting: please dont
- VC: no
- video call: absolutely not